Sexual Fluidity: How Does My Marriage Work?

Shortly after I admitted my same-sex attraction to myself and my husband David, I read Dr. Lisa Diamond’s Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women’s Love and Desire. Here I started to find some context for my lived experience. In Dr. Diamond’s research I heard echoes of my own reality—attracted to women and one particular, amazing man. I started to build a new framework to understand my sexuality, my orientation toward women, the authenticity of my marriage, and how my life could make sense.